Each year we ask our classmates a straightforward, simple question taken from the lines of a poem by Pulitzer Prize-winning author, Mary Oliver. We share with you intimate and candid responses to this question, "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" Concept and photography: Tony Deifell, MBA 2002.
Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?
In high school, a classmate said that I should not give a speech at graduation because my English was not good enough. That remark left me feeling small and insignificant. Unfortunately, I believed it. On that day, I dimmed my own light for someone else’s ignorance.
I was born in Vietnam and moved to the States when I was nine. I learned English by watching TV, reading grocery catalogs, and interpreting for my parents at doctor visits.
As I grew older, I came to realize that the problem was not my English. It was the ignorance and prejudice of other people. And it is a problem that I will face throughout my life, not just in language but in all aspects of my identity.
There will always be those who try to put out my light, but I refuse to let their ugly remarks define my worth or limit my potential. My imperfect English is a source of strength and resilience. It is a testament to my ability to adapt, learn, and grow, even in the face of tremendous adversity.
When I speak in public, I remember that ignorant remark about my English. However, I also remember the hard work and dedication that have brought me to where I am today. Rather than dimming my own light, I share my story to break down prejudice and empower others who face similar challenges.
I will keep using my light to illuminate others’.
