It Doesn't Hurt to Ask (for More Time): Employees Overestimate the Interpersonal Costs of Extension Requests

Jaewon  Yoon; Grant  Donnelly; Ashley V. Whillans

Working Paper | HBS Working Paper Series | 2019

It Doesn't Hurt to Ask (for More Time): Employees Overestimate the Interpersonal Costs of Extension Requests

by Jaewon Yoon, Grant Donnelly and Ashley V. Whillans

Abstract

Employees today experience high levels of time stress at work, undermining their health, happiness, and productivity. In this paper, we propose a novel cause and possible solution to the stressful feeling of not having enough time to complete one’s tasks at work: employees’ willingness to ask for deadline extensions. Results from one archival data and ten experiments (N = 7,241) suggest that employees avoid asking for more time and submit suboptimal work, even when supervisors often readily grant their employees more time. We document a mechanism for these results: Employees fail to ask for extensions due to the belief that asking for more time will cause them to look incompetent in the eyes of their supervisors. Yet, supervisors do not necessarily perceive extension requests as a sign of incompetence. These findings highlight a previously unexplored impression management strategy in the workplace – avoiding extension requests – as a contributor to unnecessary time stress at work.

Keywords: extension request; impression management; Employees; Time Management; Perception;

Language: English

Format: Print

92 pages

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Yoon, Jaewon, Grant Donnelly, and Ashley V. Whillans. "It Doesn't Hurt to Ask (for More Time): Employees Overestimate the Interpersonal Costs of Extension Requests." Harvard Business School Working Paper, No. 19-064, January 2019.

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