“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”
up, I spent all my time in books. I admired the trailblazer that Lucy was exploring
Narnia alone. My dream was to become as brave, strong and independent.
ideals were challenged when I was diagnosed with a severe spinal disorder at
age fourteen. Soon I was prescribed a full body brace for 23 hours a day.
During my first week of treatment, I could not even get out of bed without my
parents’ help. At school, my friends tied my shoelaces and carried my backpack.
Unable to control the worsening deformity of my spine, I lived in constant fear
years I was physically constrained in my brace liberated me in many ways. I could
not hide my condition from friends. I had to explain it and ask for help. What
surprised me was how deeply these conversations connected me with others. My
friends accepted my imperfection and helped me cope with it. One of them wrote
about me in an essay on role models. I still keep the note my seatmate passed
me in class to thank me for showing her that "there are more important things
in life than boys." Through these connections I discovered what it truly means
to be brave, strong and independent.
I got my brace off was the happiest day of my life. My most valued keepsake
today, my brace sits on my shelf at home, next to my books. It reminds me to accept
my imperfections and share my story to build trusting relationships.
— Irem Metin
Each year we ask our classmates a straightforward, simple question taken from the lines of a poem by Pulitzer Prize-winning author, Mary Oliver.
We share with you intimate and candid responses to this question, "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"
Concept and photography:
Tony Deifell, MBA '02
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